Politics: Words Can Be Poisoned Darts

This is going to be short (at least relatively shorter than most of my posts), but over the years I’ve had quite a few online and face-to-face discussions/debates/conversations with people from different walks of life on a lot of political topics. Recently, my boy sent me a Facebook thread on a political discussion that pretty much imploded from the start. Rather than engaging in a respectful discussion about the topic, the discussion exploded into character assassination, dehumanization, and parables of mere conjecture.

In many instances these conversations fall into the trap of incessant bickering about labels and empty political affiliations. We bicker about the minutiae then go back into our social corners and preach to our choirs. Is this not madness, how can we get things done with such behavior? From my perspective, we have mastered the art of condescension, egotism, and intellectual show boating at the expense of empathy and a mutual respect for those who have walked a different path than our own. We demonize each other for cheap political points.

While we divide our selves into oblivion the same political psychopaths from the Republican, Democratic party and various Poli-tocrats will walk away with the spoils. We are all naive for not realizing this. Recently, I’ve been digging deep into a new book, You Are Still Being Lied To: The Disinformation Guide to Media Distortion, Historical Whitewashes and Cultural Myths by Russ Kick and there are several passages that reinforce my point:

Intellectuals have a problem: they have to justify their existence
pg 60 —Normand Baillargeion

Hate has the annoying tendency to turn into hypocrisy. I laugh with glee when my side catches the other’s lies and follies. To a point, that’s healthy and cathartic.

But you don’t hear me laughing when the other side returns the favor. Then I discount the point and quietly fume at the attack itself. Don’t they understand our side is the good one?

And so it goes: They smear us; we uncover the truth about them. They have corrupt contributors; we’re creating a badly needed war chest. Their moral difficulties are untenable; ours, if any, are excusable.

Hate also kills thinking.
— Seth Freeman

So here are some basic conversational rules that can lead to more progress and less pomp

1. Stay focused on the topic at hand.
2. Being a blind ideologue just makes you look ignorant of the topic at hand and biased towards others.
3. DO NOT assassinate the other person(s) character. The conversation will turn into a personal screaming match
4. Do your research and source empirical data. Don’t just say something because it sounds good or it’s some talking point that has been regurgitated from the “choir”.
5. Before you speak, think your thoughts through. If you are getting angry or frustrated about a particular response, take the higher ground. Pause, then break down your response into smaller chunks.
6. “Snarkiness”, condescension, and belittling might make for some good comment entertainment, but it can derail a good conversation into the black abyss.
7. Show a bit of empathy, morals and understanding. Try your best to know who your audience is. It’s not what you say but how you say it
8. Now if all this fails and the person you are speaking to still remains ignorant, just walk away. Although very difficult to do because it’s always nice to get the last word, but sometimes you have to agree to disagree before feelings get hurt
9. As a last resort you can just punch the person in the face. It will make you feel good but the moment will be turned into to fisticuffs (just kidding)

Don’t forget good conversational etiquette and manners. We don’t have to agree on every point to get things done.

• Real change in campaign ‘08: Stop hating the other party By Seth Freeman
• You Are Still Being Lied To: The Disinformation Guide to Media Distortion, Historical Whitewashes and Cultural Myths by Russ Kick

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