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		<title>An American Dream Deferred</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 04 Jul 2011 13:57:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Malik Abdul Rasheed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/2011/07/an-american-dream-deferred-us/' addthis:title='An American Dream Deferred '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>This post was inspired by Langton Hughes&#8217;s A Dream Deferred. Rather than go through the typical romanticization of our founders on July 4th while gushing over the 1st Amendment like a first born son, I&#8217;m going to write about some of the pressing issues of an America that has broken it&#8217;s promise with it&#8217;s citizens. [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/2011/07/an-american-dream-deferred-us/' addthis:title='An American Dream Deferred ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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<p>Rather than go through the typical romanticization of our founders on July 4th while gushing over the 1st Amendment like a first born son, I&#8217;m going to write about some of the pressing issues of an America that has broken it&#8217;s promise with it&#8217;s citizens. Some contemporary patriots might scoff at me for suggesting such a thing, but my audience are for those who have been left behind, and not those how have fortunately benefited from the American fruits of liberty. Contrary to popular belief, everyone has not reached the promise land. Let me be careful with that last line. I&#8217;m not suggesting we start helicoptering pallets of money down to the masses. I&#8217;m suggesting that upward mobility is becoming more elusive and contrary to popular belief <a href="http://www.nytimes.com/packages/html/national/20050515_CLASS_GRAPHIC/index_03.html" target="new">America does not have more mobility than other nations</a>. In fact it has one of the lowest.<br />
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Some might say I&#8217;m being too hard on America and I should tone the &#8220;anti-patriotic&#8221; language down. When your country is at Defcon 1 in regards to social and economic issues, you have to ring the alarm to let everyone know that that we have a <a href="http://www.slate.com/id/2141081/" target="new">10 alarm fire</a>. Why should I save &#8220;patriotic&#8221; face when we are not living up to what this country has promised since the ratification of the Constitution? I see America as a country that is slowly losing it&#8217;s way. We hear a lot of lofty speeches from politicians, but when the citizens are asked to make hard choices we fall back to our ideological political camps. </p>
<p>Below you&#8217;ll find a video that is extremely telling in regards to the current economic shift that is happening globally. James Wolfensohn, former president of The World Bank and CEO of Wolfensohn and Co. does an eye-opening presentation for Stanford Graduate School of Business students on the coming global economic shift. In short, America and some of it&#8217;s Western compatriots are running out of time. It has debt to it&#8217;s eyeballs and waning political leverage on the global stage. It has financial obligations (Healthcare, Social Security, etc) that&#8217;s depressing it&#8217;s ability to leverage it&#8217;s internal resources. China, India, Africa and many other <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cooperation_Council_for_the_Arab_States_of_the_Gulf" target="new">GCC countries</a> are gobbling up global GDP faster than the cookie monster disintegrates cookies. If that wasn&#8217;t bad enough, we have a populace that does not have the 21st century education and skills needed to complete on a global scale. </p>
<p>Without further ado I give you James Wolfensohn, who asserts that in the next 40 years, a global power shift will see today&#8217;s leading economic countries drop from having 80% of the world&#8217;s income to 35%.</p>
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<p><strong>World Banker Makes Stunning Confession</strong><br />
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<p><strong>Former World Bank President: Big Shift Coming</strong><br />
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		<title>Have you become the &#8220;Bickersons&#8221; in your relationship?</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 11 May 2011 18:06:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Malik Abdul Rasheed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/2011/05/have-you-become-the-bickersons-in-your-relationship/' addthis:title='Have you become the &#8220;Bickersons&#8221; in your relationship? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>So who are the &#8220;Bickersons&#8221;? (the first time I heard this used is from the book Spousonomics) In my view this is any couple who quarrel a lot. It&#8217;s like walking around with steel shoes through a field of egg shells laced with magnetic dynamite. No matter what the topic, an argument is going to [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/2011/05/have-you-become-the-bickersons-in-your-relationship/' addthis:title='Have you become the &#8220;Bickersons&#8221; in your relationship? ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/2011/05/have-you-become-the-bickersons-in-your-relationship/' addthis:title='Have you become the &#8220;Bickersons&#8221; in your relationship? '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div><p><a href="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/bickersons.jpg" rel="shadowbox[sbpost-3278];player=img;"><img src="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/bickersons.jpg" alt="" title="Fighting couple" width="300" height="423" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-3280" /></a>So who are the &#8220;Bickersons&#8221;? (the first time I heard this used is from the book Spousonomics) In my view this is any couple who quarrel a lot. It&#8217;s like walking around with steel shoes through a field of egg shells laced with magnetic dynamite. No matter what the topic, an argument is going to pop off and more than likely it will be explosive. It&#8217;s taking the most nuanced issues and blowing them up into stellar battles of galatic proportions. In most instances the root of the &#8220;bickering&#8221; is something else, but these smaller issue serve as &#8220;death by a thousand cuts&#8221; to the relationship which can leave both people extremely unhappy.<br />
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I&#8217;m reaching the last couple books to round out my research on my beige paper (We&#8217;ll it&#8217;s actually a white paper but I&#8217;m not a professor or a man with a P.h.d so it will be a beige paper for now) on the Science of Relationships. What started out as an idea for a blog post on some of the neurology and psychology behind how men and women interact in their relationships eventually grew into a &#8220;beige paper&#8221; on this same subject. One of the books is called <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Spousonomics-Economics-Master-Marriage-Dishes/dp/0385343949" target="new">Spousonomics: Using Economics to Master Love, Marriage, and Dirty Dishes</a> by Paula Szuchman. Wait&#8230;now before you run to the hills and say &#8220;There&#8217;s no way I&#8217;m taking relationship advice from some economist&#8221;, you should realize that out of the 15-20 books that have contributed to my research over the last 3 years, this book is one of the most pragmatic and helpful books on rooting out some of the underlying dysfunctions of many relationships. I&#8217;m not saying this because I love economics, I&#8217;m saying this because the information is very straight forward, honest and pragmatic. </p>
<p><a href="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/spousonomics_bb2.jpg" rel="shadowbox[sbpost-3278];player=img;"><img src="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/05/spousonomics_bb2-e1305026371584.jpg" alt="" title="spousonomics_bb2" width="200" height="300" class="alignright size-full wp-image-3290" /></a>Many of the problems that are identified in this book have been painstakingly researched over decades and although the book has a &#8220;economics&#8221; wrapper, you don&#8217;t have to know anything about economics to understand how to run your relationship like an economy that is experiencing robust growth instead of a depression (which unfortunately many relationships are). Below you&#8217;ll find two audio snippets from the book that highlight a couple issues that bring about much angst in too many relationships. Suprisingly one of the biggest pain points for most relationships (that eventually lead the decline of the relationship) is household chores. Before you dismiss this as some strange aberration, check out this quote from the book Spousonomics:</p>
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If arguing over chores seems petty to you, consider this: In 2007, the Pew Research Center conducted a survey that asked &#8220;What makes a marriage work?&#8221; The number one answer was faithfulness, followed by sex. Makes sense. But third, ahead of everything else, including kids, money, and religion: sharing household chores.</p>
<p>Other research backs this up. According to a 2009 survey of working women by the Boston Consulting Group, the second most common thing people argue about with their partners are household chores. That&#8217;s behind money but ahead of sex, work, and raising kids. In our own Exhaustive, Groundbreaking, and Very Expensive Marriage Survey, 73 percent of women said they did more than 50 percent of the housework, whereas only 40 percent of men said they did more than half the housework (you have to a least give the men credit for honesty)
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<p>A couple days ago I was on a thread talking about relationships and many of the complaints were related to the roles and responsibilities of the house. To be honest, that was about 50% of the complaints. There seemed to be a wide dichotomy (of Grand Canyon proportions) on who should do what in the house. However, enjoy the audio snippets:</p>
<h3>50/50 Household chores vs Comparative Advantage</h3>
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		<title>Poor Man&#8217;s (or Woman&#8217;s) Guide to Understanding Economics</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Dec 2010 00:00:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Malik Abdul Rasheed</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style " addthis:url='http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/2010/12/poor-man-or-woman-guide-to-understanding-economics/' addthis:title='Poor Man&#8217;s (or Woman&#8217;s) Guide to Understanding Economics '  ><a class="addthis_button_facebook_like" fb:like:layout="button_count"></a><a class="addthis_button_tweet"></a><a class="addthis_counter addthis_pill_style"></a></div>Let me be frank, understanding economics (at least U.B.E.P Understanding the Big Economic Picture) takes a lot of reading, patience and a hellava lot of googling archaic economic vocabulary that on the surface seems to make absolutely no sense. However, once you are able to get past the mysterious language of economics and understand the [...]<div class="addthis_toolbox addthis_default_style addthis_32x32_style" addthis:url='http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/2010/12/poor-man-or-woman-guide-to-understanding-economics/' addthis:title='Poor Man&#8217;s (or Woman&#8217;s) Guide to Understanding Economics ' ><a class="addthis_button_preferred_1"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_2"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_3"></a><a class="addthis_button_preferred_4"></a><a class="addthis_button_compact"></a></div>]]></description>
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<p>Let me be frank, understanding economics (at least U.B.E.P <strong>U</strong>nderstanding the <strong>B</strong>ig <strong>E</strong>conomic <strong>P</strong>icture) takes a lot of reading, patience and a hellava lot of googling archaic economic vocabulary that on the surface seems to make absolutely no sense. However, once you are able to get past the mysterious language of economics and understand the context of this vocabulary U.B.E.P becomes more concrete and eventually you&#8217;ll get the &#8220;Ahah&#8221; moment. </p>
<p>So why am I so relentless when it comes to economic stuff? Well for starters, the economic policies of government have very deep impacts on the amount of money we take home. From taxes, to interest rates, money in circulation, to how much our government spends on certain mandates and a slew of other things that would probably give me carpal tunnel syndrome in my fingers if I attempted to write out all the thousands of circumstances.</p>
<p>Below are 3 books which I believe are good starters or as I like to say &#8220;launch pads&#8221; into more sophisticated economic fields of thought. I believe there are several critical areas that each of these books cover. One is macro-economics (understanding how the sum decisions from individuals, firms, and governments impact trends, incentives and movements in the broader economic market), then personal economics (how your behavior fits into the larger scheme of the broader economic market), and how maximizing your personal utility is by far one of the most productive acts you can do to make your skills scarce, hence increasing your value in the broader economic market. These 3 books are as simple as it gets. No fancy language, no crazy complex charts, and lots of objectivity to give us an untarnished and balanced perspective needed to tackle many economic issues that challenge us on a day-to-day basis.</p>
<h3>Naked Economics: Undressing the Dismal Science by Charles Wheelan</h3>
<p><a href="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/nakedeconomics.jpeg" rel="shadowbox[sbpost-2617];player=img;"><img src="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/nakedeconomics.jpeg" alt="" title="nakedeconomics" width="160" height="244" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2630" /></a> What is there not to like about this book? So simple and concise minus the ideological hyperbole of free markets vs government. Naked Economics strips away all the fancy rhetoric and explains economics in a language that just about anyone can understand. Don&#8217;t be discouraged if you bump into something that sounds unfamiliar. A simple &#8220;googling&#8221; of the particular word or phrase will get you back on track and it&#8217;s extremely rare that you&#8217;ll run into this issue. The author wrote this book because he was tired of all the &#8220;ivory tower&#8221; economist explaining economics in such a drab and complex way. If these mainstream economist are the only ones who understand each other and not the general public, what is the point? This book will clear the fog of economic misunderstandings, not to mention it&#8217;s pretty darn funny. </p>
<h3>The Millionaire Next Door by Thomas J Stanley and William D. Danko</h3>
<p><a href="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/book-millionaire-next-door.jpg" rel="shadowbox[sbpost-2617];player=img;"><img src="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/book-millionaire-next-door-e1292625878116.jpg" alt="" title="book-millionaire-next-door" width="160" height="255" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2634" /></a> One of the first books that really helped me understand the difference between saving money instead of looking like you have money was The Millionaire Next Door. This book is the ultimate &#8220;Anti-Joneses&#8221; personal finance doctrine. What&#8217;s extremely helpful is this book attempts at destroying a lot of the myths and urban legends that surround wealthy people. Want to know why most millionaires are NOT entertainers and athletes? How is this possible..uh read the book. You&#8217;ll be shocked to know how much the average millionaire spends on his/her watch. Want to know? Read the book. Or how about how much the average millionaire spends on a car? Want to know? Read the book. I promise you, you&#8217;ll walk away with a new understanding of why saving is so important, especially when it comes to your own personal utility. Too many people carry a fictitious narrative about what wealth is and who are the fortunate few who&#8217;ve been able to reach the status of wealthy.  I must read for those who are interested in finding out where the seedlings of wealth begin and how those seedlings grow into wealthy roots.</p>
<h3>Outliers: The Story of Success by Malcolm Gladwell</h3>
<p><a href="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/outliers.jpg" rel="shadowbox[sbpost-2617];player=img;"><img src="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/outliers-e1292626626915.jpg" alt="" title="outliers" width="160" height="241" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2636" /></a> One of the most difficult concepts to understand is the dynamic &#8220;magic&#8221; that keeps the economy chugging along. In short, incentives and human capital. Incentive is the factor that motivates an individual to do a particular act. In the context of economics, it&#8217;s usually more money and quality of life. In some instances aspiring for more money might not be tied to just material objects, but could be tied to savings which breeds financial security or other philanthropic aspirations. Malcolm Gladwell&#8217;s Outliers is all about the circumstances, timing, and incentives that allowed select individuals to do extraordinary things in the economy, while explaining what happens when people master the art of aligning their personal incentives with their stock of human capital. This is the driving force behind our global economy. </p>
<h2>Honorable Mention</h2>
<h3>Economics in One Lesson by Henry Hazlitt</h3>
<p><a href="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/economics.jpg" rel="shadowbox[sbpost-2617];player=img;"><img src="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/12/economics-e1292628747325.jpg" alt="" title="economics" width="160" height="240" class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2641" /></a> Once you finished with the first 3 books above, you can&#8217;t move forward with understanding economics before you read Economics in One Lesson. Although written within a Libertarian vein (I say this as a compliment), it&#8217;s does a pretty good job of removing a lot of the &#8220;economic myths&#8221; that seem to never go away. The language is a bit heavier than the books above, but it&#8217;s still a good read. Although written almost 60 years ago, the content is as relevant today as it was then. A must read for those who want to rise above the cloud of economic confusion and fallacious punditry. </p>
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<p class="removed smtxt"><strong>IMPORTANT DISCLAIMER: </strong>In no way shape or form is this post endorsing the use of usury (interest) or gambling when terms like debt, savings, lottery, credit cards, loan, borrow, etc are used. This is merely an explanation of my experiences with saving, debt, and credit cards.
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<p>Welcome to Part III of Economics Made Simple. I hope you have enjoyed the the first two parts of this series and if you haven&#8217;t had the moment to dig into the first two parts, the links are below.</p>
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<li><a href="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/2009/08/renting-vs-buying-a-home/" target="new">Part I: Renting vs Buying a home</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/2009/09/why-can%E2%80%99t-i-make-ends-meet/">Part II: Why Can&#8217;t I Make Ends Meet?</a> <br />(How I found the Austrian School of Economics) </li>
<li><a href="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/2009/10/saving-money-vs-serfdom/">Part III: Saving Money vs Serfdom</a></li>
<li><a href="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/2010/02/casino-capitalism/">Part IV: Casino Capitalism</a></li>
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<p>At first I titled this post <em>Saving vs Being an Idiot</em>, To be honest, that title was a bit harsh, and I&#8217;m not here to demonize anyone or make them feel bad. What I really want to do is send a message that the alternative to preserving your money (AKA Saving), could potentially be a form of <strong>serfdom </strong>. Piggying-back of F.A Hayek classic book <a href="http://mises.org/store/Road-to-Serfdom-The-P252C0.aspx" target="new">The Road to Serfdom</a>, it&#8217;s important to understand where the road leads if we decide to treat <a href="http://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/Money+does+not+grow+on+trees" target="new"><strong>money as if it grows on trees</strong></a>. So what does being a Serf or to be in Serfdom mean? Here is the definition:</p>
<p><strong>A person in bondage or servitude.</strong></p>
<p>Can you see where I&#8217;m going with this? Rather than bore you with a whole bunch of &#8220;savings rules&#8221;, (that most people ignore anyway), I&#8217;m going to go into a story about myself and how I went from a destroyer of money to preserver of money. Let&#8217;s begin, shall we?</p>
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<h1>Table of Contents</h1>
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<li><a href="#chree">Mi av chree job</a> (Patios to English translation: I have three jobs)</li>
<li><a href="#syra">Syra-cash University</a></li>
<li><a href="#rock">Rockbottom</a></li>
<li><a href="#conclusion">Conclusion</a></li>
<li><a href="#resource">Articles that will scare you into saving Money</a></li>
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<h1>Mi av chree job</h1>
<p><img src="http://www.whyihatethejoneses.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/savemoney-main_full-200x300.jpg" alt="savemoney-main_full" title="savemoney-main_full" width="200" height="300" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1080" />So growing up in a West Indian/Jamaican family the importance of saving money or as my mother says &#8220;<strong><a href="http://idioms.thefreedictionary.com/save+for+a+rainy+day" target="new">Saving for a Rainy Day</a></strong>&#8221; is one of those things that is drilled into your head as soon as you come out of the womb. I wouldn&#8217;t be surprised if my parents handed me a shovel and newborn work permit to get started at the nearest construction site. Although I jest a bit here, this ideology was one of the most important life skills that my parents gave to me. So as soon as I hit fifteen I got my work permit and started to get busy on the work grind. Very strange things start happening when you start working and you live in a <strong>Jamaican household</strong>. Similar to the parody of the Jamaican family called the Headley&#8217;s on In Living Colour, where having dozens of jobs was the joke, in real life, things aren&#8217;t so different.</p>
<p>No, I didn&#8217;t have 10 concurrent jobs, but I most certainly could not have 1 job. If you have 1 job in a Jamaican household, you might as well be seen as someone who is unemployed. With 2 jobs you are officially working, and with 3 jobs you are doing extra credit, if you will. So I started working at Waldbaums Supermarket in East Meadow, NY (Long Island) pushing carts. Not a very exciting job, but the $4.25 an hour was better than no dollars a hour. Right after school I would rush to do my 4:00pm to 9:30pm shift. Having 1 job was good during high school, but as the summer approaches, in probably the most natural and normal voice, my mother says &#8220;Su, wen ya start ya sekon job?&#8221; (Patios to English Translation So, when do you start your second job?&#8221;). As if that was what in the plans for my summer! Rather than dodge the question with, &#8220;What second job?&#8221;, I said &#8220;Oh, yeah..I&#8217;ll..um look around.&#8221;.</p>
<p>So my mother worked at EAB (European American Back) at the time, it is now Ciitbank, and I was able to get into the teller program at the bank. By the time the summer hit, I was promoted to cashier at Waldbaums, so I had a bit of experience handling money. Getting the teller job was not only a natural transition for me, but double the money I was making at Waldbaums. So I would work at the bank during the day (8am to 4pm) then rush over to Waldbaums to do my 6pm to 10pm shift. I always worked on weekends at Waldbaums and especially Sunday to get the time and a half.  My weekend shift at Waldbaums started to get later and later. They needed me for the night shift, the 4pm to 11pm shift. Sometimes up until midnight. So that left a huge pocket of time during the day on weekends. Uh oh, step in mom dukes &#8220;Yu hav nuff tyme ina di day, huh?&#8221;. (Patios to English Translation: You have a lot of time in the day, huh?&#8221;. This my friends is a very passive aggressive way of saying &#8220;Hey, you have way to much time during the day, time for another job&#8221;.</p>
<p>So a friend of my mother, Bobby, big Italian guy that was known as &#8220;The Grape&#8221;, had a construction business. He needed help cutting down trees and busting up concrete for contract jobs around Long Island. I have no idea where Bobby is today, but let me tell you, this dude was the sweetest and nicest guy ever. He would bring fresh &#8220;muzzerallla&#8221; for my mother that was probably the best &#8220;muzzerella&#8221; I ever had. He&#8217;d buy lunch for the working crew and was just really easy going guy. Of course you had to work your behind off, but that was expected from a guy like Bobby. The job was roughly $100 bucks a day. At this point I feel like the Jamaican version of the Rothschild&#8217;s children. I had never seen or made so much money in one day. So I did a couple jobs with Bobby during the summers until it was time to go to college.</p>
<p>So there you have it folks, 3 jobs. I was a great saver then. I would save about 80% of my paycheck and use the rest for cds, clothes, and movies. With those jobs I was able to save about $4,000 to $5,000 dollars. That&#8217;s about $6,500 dollars in today&#8217;s dollars. Not bad. I would end up using this money for books for college, but during college I would reverse all my diligent and prudent savings practices which I will elaborate in the next section.</p>
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<h1>Syra-cash University</h1>
<p>There is something very strange about going to college. It&#8217;s like the anticipation of going on a roller coaster for the first time. Although the anticipation of being sky-rocketed to 2-3 gs of force has you laced with fear and excitement, you can&#8217;t wait till the moment where you are at the top of the peak, and you are driven down at over 100 miles an hour down the track. Like any roller coaster with cork screws and swift roundabouts, if you are not careful you can get sick or even injure yourself. College is no different. <a href="http://www.syr.edu/" target="new">Syracuse U.</a> (or as I like to jokingly say Syra-cash University) was by far one of the most expensive, beneficial, and culturally diverse experiences I&#8217;ve every had in my life. Although I&#8217;m very close to paying off my school loans completely, one of the first experiences I&#8217;ll never forget is walking up on campus and seeing a row of tables with these professionally looking men and women standing before a stack of several dozen crispy white t-shirts. Before I can even blink, The nice women with the blonde hair and pearly whites says, &#8220;Sign-up for this credit card and get a FREE T-shirt&#8221;. Wow, I&#8217;ve only been on campus less than 10 minutes and I&#8217;m already getting &#8220;free&#8221; stuff. Not only do I get 10K in credit, but I get a t-shirt out it of it. Little did I know that this so-called &#8220;free&#8221; t-shirt was going to cost me almost 14K in credit card debt later on. That was the most expensive free gift anyone has given me, thanks a lot!</p>
<p>One of the most seductive parts of the credit card is it&#8217;s ability to fulfill the desire of instant gratification. In less than 1/100th of a second you can get whatever your heart desires. Need new shoes or clothes?, no problem, need new T.V.? no problem, need to go eat a nice restaurant? no problem, get depressed or sad and need to feel better, no problem, need to pay off the blasted credit card that got me into debt, PROBLEM. Here is a good example of what I&#8217;m talking about. There was this great little sandwich spot called Kostas. I mean, their cheesesteaks were the best. Yes, no disrespect to Philly but better than your cheesesteaks. Yes, Syracuse makes better cheesesteaks than you, get over it. However these cheesy steak subs of delight (Cheesesteak with onions, peppers, lettuce, tomato and mayo) cost me $1,000 dollars in one semester! I was to Kostas what a drug addict is to a heroin dealer. My mother called me, &#8220;Yu maad? Cyan spen dis tipe a muny an jus sanwige&#8221; (Patios to English Translation: Are you crazy?!! You can&#8217;t spend this type of money on sandwiches). Of course she was right, and there would be a host of other little subtle weekly expenses that would eventually balloon my credit card debt to 10K after I graduated from college.</p>
<p>After I graduated from college, my addiction to debt wasn&#8217;t getting any better. Now keep in mind that I always made the minimum payment aka share cropping payment. Like a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sharecropping" target="new"><strong>share cropper</strong></a> you never ever grow or earn enough to make ends meets. All you are doing is rolling yourself into more and more debt, which was very typical of the share croppers during the 19th century. I never missed a payment, but my debt burden was not getting any smaller. Now it time to hit rock bottom.</p>
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<h1>Rock Bottom</h1>
<p>So you would think getting a fancy job at one of the largest health care companies would stop the debt spiral, right? No. So instead of batting down the &#8220;cost of living&#8221; hatches and paying off my debts, I increased my standard of living, hence plunging me into more debt.  To be honest, I wasn&#8217;t one of those debtors that buy huge expensive items. I was the most dangerous kind. I&#8217;m was what you call the &#8220;here and there&#8221; credit card user. I just used to it here and there for things I really didn&#8217;t need.  My expenses, (car note, insurance, rent, etc) at the time were pretty manageable but it was the other &#8220;here and there&#8221; type of expenses that was doing me in. To be honest I can&#8217;t even remember half the stuff I bought, but by the time I was ready to move back in NY in 2000, I had less saved in my bank account than what I had saved in high school with over 12K in credit card debt. I couldn&#8217;t believe it. No only did I not have anything saved for a &#8220;rainy day&#8221;, but even a puddle of water could wipe me out. Although I was &#8220;cash poor&#8221;, I did have money in my retirement investments, but relative to how much I was making, it was a sad state of affairs.</p>
<p>So I moved back home and spent a couple years rebuilding my savings and getting back on track. Started reading tons of books on savings, investing, managing debt, and got so good at it, I could actually start giving advice to other people. My debt situation was self-inflicted. Through all the years I had a credit card, I never had any financial emergency where I had to wipe my savings out and go to my credit cards. I was living a way of life that I could not afford. I wasn&#8217;t living withing my means, and my debt was getting so overwhelming that every dollar I had was going to my debts. I&#8217;m happy to say I don&#8217;t have any credit card debt.</p>
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<h1>Conclusion</h1>
<p>Every person&#8217;s debt story is different, but if there is one area that we need to be mindful of, is our psychology towards money. All the &#8220;getting rid of debt&#8221; guidelines in the world won&#8217;t mean anything, if you don&#8217;t have a hold on your desires, behavior, and a understanding of how you view material objects and self. In addition, many of us need to up our financial literacy. I&#8217;ve heard of people who literally did not know that they had to pay the debt back on their credit cards. They just thought is was free money. Nor did they know what <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Compound_interest" target="new"><strong>compounding interest</strong></a>, <a href="http://www.investorwords.com/1316/debt_equity_ratio.html" target="new"><strong>debt-to-equity ratio</strong></a>, or what a <a href="http://www.myfico.com/HelpCenter/FICOScores/" target="new"><strong>FICO </strong></a> score is. If you don&#8217;t know what these things are, then you should not have a credit card.</p>
<p>Not only was my debt burden financially debilitating, but it also took away my freedom of mobility. It was like carrying around a ton of bricks on my back with <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fetters" target="new"><strong>fetters</strong></a> on my legs. Just think about all the opportunities that you miss out on. At the time, I couldn&#8217;t give as much to charity, help family when needed, not to mention I did not have money around if an emergency happened, and could not re-invest any resources in myself/career or even other entrepreneurial endeavors. However you look at it, it&#8217;s a <strong>Road to Serfdom</strong>, and if I can help it (Inshallah), I hope to never experience that type of slavery again. Man, 1st Financial Bank got me good, but it was one of the most important lessons of financial wherewithal and debt management that I have ever experienced.</p>
<p>Before I bring this post to a close, I&#8217;ll leave you with two very significant quotes from Nassim Nicholas Taleb&#8217;s <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Black-Swan-Impact-Highly-Improbable/dp/1400063515/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&#038;s=books&#038;qid=1254768488&#038;sr=8-1" target="new"><strong>Black Swan: The Impact of the Highly Improbable</strong> </a> that should heighten your awareness on some of the very dangerous psychological ideologies that many times, have led us to stray into making poor financial decisions. One is &#8220;Cheap Signaling and the other is the &#8220;Prediction error&#8221;.</p>
<p><strong>Cheap Signaling, pg 6</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>There were some obvious benefits in showing one&#8217;s ability to act on one&#8217;s opinions, and not compromising an inch to avoid &#8220;offending&#8221; or bothering others. I was in a state of rage and didn&#8217;t care what my parents (and grandfather) thought of me. This made them quite scared of me, so I could not afford to back down, or even blink. Had I concealed my participation in the riot (as many friends did) and been discovered, instead of being openly defiant, I am certain that I would have been treated as a black sheep. It is one thing to be cosmetically defiant of authority by wearing unconventional clothes—what social scientists and economists call &#8220;cheap signaling&#8221;—and another to prove willingness to translate belief into action.</p>
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<p><strong>Prediction error, pg 194-195</strong></p>
<blockquote><p>I searched the literature of cognitive science for any research on &#8220;future blindness&#8221; and found nothing. But in literature on happiness I did find an examination of our chronic errors in prediction that will make us happy.</p>
<p>This prediction error works as follows. You are about to buy a new car. It is going to change your life, elevate your status, and make your commute a vacation. It is so quiet that you can hardly tell if the engine is on, so you can listen to Rachimanioff&#8217;s nocturnes on the highway. This new car will bring you to a permanently elevated plateau of contentment. People will think, he has a great car, every time they see you. Yet you forget the last time you bought a car, you also had the same expectations. You do not anticipate that the effect of the new car will eventually wane and that you will revert to the initial condition, as you did last time. A few weeks after you drive you new car out of the showroom, it will become dull. If you had expected this, you probably would not have bought it.</p>
<p>You are about to commit a prediction error that you have already made. Yet it would cost so little to introspect! </p>
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<h4><strong>Articles that will scare you into saving money</strong></h4>
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<li>The Collapse of Personal Savings Rate in America<br />
<a href="http://www.billshrink.com/blog/personal-savings-rate/" target="new">http://www.billshrink.com/blog/personal-savings-rate/</a>
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<li>Why do so many NFL players go bankrupt?<br />
<a href="http://sports.yahoo.com/nfl/blog/shutdown_corner/post/Why-do-so-many-NFL-players-go-bankrupt-?urn=nfl,190555" target="new">http://sports.yahoo.com/nfl/blog/shutdown_corner/post/Why-do-so-many-NFL-players-go-bankrupt-?urn=nfl,190555</a></li>
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Income Inequality Is At An All-Time High<br />
<a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/08/14/income-inequality-is-at-a_n_259516.html" target="new">http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/08/14/income-inequality-is-at-a_n_259516.html</a>
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Winning Lotto numbers not always the ticket to dreams, success<br />
<a href=" Winning the lottery http://www2.tbo.com/content/2009/oct/01/winning-lotto-numbers-not-always-ticket-dreams-suc/" target="new">http://www2.tbo.com/content/2009/oct/01/winning-lotto-numbers-not-always-ticket-dreams-suc/</a>
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